So this morning my mom was talking to her cousins. A pretty normal thing she has 33 of them. They asked how old Lilia was and she goes she turned one on the 8th and I said no mom it was the 5th and she said oh right you are the 8th no mom I am the 20th. So I had to remind her our wedding anniversary which was also my dad's birthday was the 8th of a different month as is my birthday in another month which I think she knew.
It was the strangest thing it was like she left and went somewhere else but her mouth was still talking.
It really upset me for a variety of reasons but I have probably said enough on the matter in this public space.